Power and Control Wheel: Economic or Financial Abuse

BWSS Briefing Note: Economic Abuse Awareness Day

The Province of British Columbia has proclaimed Saturday, November 26th, 2022, as Domestic Economic Abuse Awareness Day.

BWSS is pleased to hear that the BC government is observing Domestic Economic Abuse Awareness Day and we are hopeful that this announcement will bring more attention and visibility to the issue of economic and financial abuse against survivors of intimate partner violence.

We see BC’s adoption of November 26th as Domestic Economic Abuse Awareness Day as an opportunity to educate the public about the realities and dangers of economic abuse and intimate partner violence more broadly, to encourage policy change in favour of survivors of economic abuse, and to improve service delivery for survivors of economic and other forms of abuse.

BC’s decision to dedicate November 26th as Domestic Economic Abuse Awareness Day follows the lead of the Canadian Centre for Women’s Empowerment, a national organization dedicated to “addressing Economic Abuse and injustice through advocacy, education, research, economic empowerment and policy change”, which observes November 26th as a day to educate about and prevent economic and financial abuse as part of 16 days of activism against gender-based violence. The Province of BC also follows the lead of 27 Canadian cities who have formally recognized November 26th as Economic Abuse Awareness Day, including the BC communities of Comox, Courtenay, Cumberland, Squamish, Surrey, Vancouver, and Victoria.


What is Economic Abuse?

Economic abuse is a form of coercive control that abusers often use in intimate relationships to prevent their partner from developing and maintaining financial independence.

Economic abuse involves efforts to sabotage women’s livelihoods in an attempt to deny them their agency and autonomy, and especially to deny them of their ability to flee violent and abusive relationships.

Angela Marie MacDougall, Executive Director of BWSS writes that “Economic abuse is defined as controlling a woman’s ability to acquire, use, and maintain economic resources. Economic abuse is as common in abusive relationships as physical, sexual, and emotional abuse”.

Economic abuse is often reinforced by the threat and use of physical and sexual violence.

Economic abuse takes many different forms and is carried out with a variety of different strategies.

Power and Control Wheel: Economic or Financial Abuse

Image credit: Canadian Centre for Women’s Empowerment.  Adapted from Domestic Abuse Intervention Programs (DAIP), the Duluth Model, Duluth, Minnesota.

The Western Centre for Research and Education on Violence against Women and Children identifies three distinct forms of economic abuse and associated tactics used to intimidate and ultimately control women: economic control, economic exploitation and economic sabotage, and associated tactics used to intimidate and ultimately control women: economic control, economic exploitation and economic sabotage.

Economic control, they state, “restricts access to or decision-making over resources”, while economic exploitation “involves destroying the individual’s financial resources or credit”. Economic sabotage “inhibits the individual’s ability to gain or maintain work”.

Ultimately, economic or financial abuse is used to secure total financial control over women as a means of preventing them from fleeing to safety.

Abusers may prevent their partner from earning their own income through employment or may take their partner’s earnings from them in order to have control over their finances. An abusive partner might discourage and interfere with women’s attempts to pursue educational opportunities, making it difficult to pursue their employment and career goals over time. Abusers may destroy a woman’s home, vehicle, or possessions, forcing her to constantly pay costs for renovations and repairs, as well as replacing important items like cell phones and laptops. Abusers may take control of family finances, steal money from their partners, and withhold vital necessities in the hopes that women are left dependent and disempowered.

After a woman leaves a violent relationship, survivors may be subject to post-separation abuse that can include economic and financial abuse. Abusers may withhold child support payments to “punish” women for leaving and moving on with their lives. They may use the court systems to continue to exploit and harass women by involving them in lengthy, emotionally, and financially draining court battles.


Prevalence of Economic Abuse

As an anti-violence organization with decades of experience providing support to survivors of intimate partner violence, BWSS knows that economic and financial abuse is a widespread tactic that abusers use in an attempt to exercise control over their partner.

The vast majority of women who experience intimate partner violence experience economic or financial abuse as well. According to data from the Canadian Centre for Women’s Empowerment, economic abuse is “experienced by more than 95% of domestic violence victims” and “is experienced by women from all backgrounds, regions, and income levels. Women from marginalized groups, including Black, racialized, and Indigenous women (BIPOC), are at a higher risk of Economic Abuse”.

While we can attest to the prevalence of economic abuse on survivors, we recognize that it can be difficult to identify and even more difficult to address. In a discussion with BeCause Radio, Meseret Haileyesus, Founder and CEO of the Canadian Centre for Women’s Empowerment, stated that economic abuse is an “underreported, poorly recognized, and seldomly discussed form of abuse”. Economic abuse is often overlooked by service providers, whose lack of knowledge and awareness of economic and financial abuse poses a significant barrier for survivors.

A new report, Understanding the Nature of Economic Abuse: A National Study on Service Provider Insights in Canada, commissioned by the Canadian Centre for Women’s Empowerment and funded by Women and Gender Equality Canada, notes that “systemic barriers exist in the Canadian legal, financial and social services system[s]” that “compound the impact of Financial Abuse”. The report highlights how financial institutions, and a variety of social services such as legal, criminal justice and mental health services, are undertrained and lack the resources to identify and properly respond to financial abuse. Financial institutions, for example, “do not have policies for financial abuse in the IPV context” and were rated by survivors of economic abuse as “least helpful amongst a number of other service providers such as shelters and hospitals”.

BWSS supports calls for the delivery of intensive training for professionals working within fields where economic and financial abuse may take place, including financial institutions, and social services such as legal, criminal justice and mental health services, to become better able to recognize and act upon signs of economic and financial abuse.

In our resource titled “What is Economic Abuse”, BWSS notes that in addition to the normalization of a power hierarchy and male domination, women’s economic dependence is normalized, internalized, and reinforced by society. Women have reported that their economic dependency is also reinforced by societal and systemic gender discrimination that limits or denies women the opportunities to access and participate in the labour market and earn equal wages as male counterparts.

The gender wage gap is well documented in Canada; Statistics Canada reported in 2019 that women earn 76.8 cents for every dollar earned by men nationwide. Women who experience economic or financial abuse face not only precarious employment and education as a result, but also the barriers posed by society more broadly.


Economic Abuse and the Housing Crisis

At BWSS, we know that access to safe, affordable housing is one of the most important factors for women and gender-diverse people who are escaping intimate partner violence.

Economic and financial abuse, a woman’s ability to flee a violent relationship, and the ongoing housing crisis both in BC and nationwide are all interrelated and overlapping. Economic abuse often affects a woman’s income and level of debt, which together impact her ability to find housing when she is fleeing violence.

With many landlords now checking the credit scores of potential tenants, women with poor credit scores as a result of economic or financial abuse may not find themselves in a competitive position during their search for housing. For women who struggled to pay rent on time during the abusive relationships they experienced, securing references from former landlords may further complicate their search for stable and secure housing.

BWSS sees the development and prioritization of affordable housing, the normalization of a living wage, and the establishment of universal basic income, as crucial solutions to the impact of economic and financial abuse on the lives of women and gender-diverse people fleeing intimate partner violence. In particular, we know that solutions that make it possible for women to secure safe and sustainable housing will address many of the implications of economic and financial abuse that a woman may face.


How BWSS is taking action to combat economic abuse

Throughout 40 years of our work at Battered Women’s Support Services, we have learned that women with economic skills and supports are more likely to leave abusive relationships and sustain themselves and their families into the future.

BWSS helps women to work towards restoring their economic and financial independence through its Advancing Women’s Awareness Regarding Employment (AWARE) program.

AWARE seeks to provide employment and economic development for women and femme survivors of violence and abuse. This program recognizes and addresses the unique barriers that survivors face and supports them to move towards economic independence and self-reliance.

Through the AWARE Program, BWSS serves and supports an average of 180 to 200 women per year to achieve their training, career, and employment goals. The AWARE program empowers survivors to be financially or economically independent by providing weekly and monthly workshops and ongoing support with one-on-one appointments. 

BWSS AWARE program team members Claudia Maldonado and Jennifer Ramirez

We know that women require specific resources that can provide them with the knowledge and skills they need for economic empowerment.

BWSS AWARE program team members Claudia Maldonado and Jennifer Ramirez work with survivors to address barriers to economic independence, including career assessment and exploration, assistance with researching and applying for educational opportunities, childcare, providing and connecting women with emotional supports, preparing women to enter the workforce, and ensuring women feel supported in their work environment.

By working with survivors where they’re at, AWARE program team members walk alongside survivors, supporting them with what they need to become financially and economically independent.


AWARE Participant Feedback

Below are testimonials from former AWARE program participants.

“The program has been so hopeful, I feel motivated to keep going in my search for a better job.”

“When I started my journey with the AWARE Program I was completely broken. My previous counsellor found here told me just try as I was so scared to try new places. This program really helped me to build up my self-confidence, self-awareness, learn a lot about Canada’s workplace, about my rights, how to set boundaries (although still struggling). In general I learn A LOT. Without your encouragement and peace I never could find my job. THANK YOU SO MUCH.”

“What AWARE means to me. A safe place to come and have ladies run different groups for us. Unemployment, trauma groups or 16 Steps, Counselling and a place to meet others that are in the same situation as us. I want to thank all of them, they do so much and very appreciated. Thank you.”

Woman, Life, Freedom

BWSS stands with the women and girls of Iran and East Kurdistan who are leading the “Woman, Life, Freedom” revolutionary movement to fight for liberation from the Iranian governments’ brutal Islamic regime.

We hold in our hearts the women and girls who are risking their lives to protest the patriarchal tyranny that has endangered their lives since the Islamic revolution in 1979.

This new wave of protests in Iran is one of the biggest women led movements we have seen, and we are in awe of the bravery and tenacity of the women and girls of Iran and East Kurdistan.

Woman, Life, Freedom

In response to the global call to commemorate the International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women, BWSS announces that we will stand in solidarity with Iranian and Kurdish women and girls at tomorrow’s gathering at the Vancouver Art Gallery.

We join the call for justice for the hundreds of protestors who have been killed by the Iranian government in its crackdown against this revolutionary movement for freedom and liberation for women and girls.

The “Woman, Life, Freedom” movement began with the killing of 22-year-old Kurdish woman Jina Amini, known by her Iranian name as Mahsa Amini, on September 16, 2022, by religious morality police in Tehran.

While shopping with her family, Jina was beaten and arrested for not wearing her hijab in accordance with government law. She died in hospital three days later, likely due to a cerebral hemorrhage or stroke caused by police brutality. Jina’s death ignited long-simmering rage towards Iran’s violent and oppressive government. In the days and weeks to follow, Iranians organized and rallied in support of Jina and her family, and in protest against the Islamic regime that controls and subjugates women and girls. Many women and girls took to the streets, publicly removing their hijabs and cutting their hair in defiance of Islamic laws governing women’s bodies.


The phrase “Woman, Life, Freedom” was first used during Kurdish feminist resistance movements in the late 20th century.

As the “Woman, Life, Freedom” movement spreads across Iran, we recognize that women in Kurdish communities are amongst the hardest hit in Iranian government crackdowns against protestors. The Iranian government appears to be escalating efforts to suppress Kurdish communities, with the Kurdish human rights group Hengaw estimating that at least 42 people in Kurdish communities have been killed within the last week.

Like many, BWSS has been watching this revolution unfold rapidly on social media.

We see social media as an important tool to protect women and girls and keep them safe by shedding light on the dangers they face. We recognize the importance of social media to democratize information sharing and we support Iranian, Kurdish, and other minoritized women in their use of the use of TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, and other social media platforms to make visible their struggle for freedom. On TikTok, we have seen the movement from the eyes of women and girls themselves, especially in first-hand perspectives of protests in the streets and the heartbreaking “GRWM (get ready with me) to get killed in Iran” videos.

Social media has been an effective tool in the movement and has been key to holding the Iranian government accountable on the international political scene.

We support the UN Human Rights Council’s commitment to investigating the Iranian government’s violent takedown of protestors and its crimes and abuses against Iranian, Kurdish, and other minoritized women and children.


This new revolutionary movement only continues to grow and BWSS stands with the women and girls of Iran and Kurdistan as they fight for their liberation from gender-based violence and oppression.

Intimate Partner Sexual Violence

Intimate Partner Sexual Violence

November is National Domestic Violence Awareness Month and we are highlighting Intimate Partner Sexual Violence

What is intimate partner sexual violence (IPSV)?

Intimate partner sexual violence (IPSV) is any form of sexual assault that takes place within an intimate relationship. It includes not only marital rape, but all other forms of sexual assault that take place within a current or former intimate relationship, whether the partners are married or not.

IPSV involves using force, threats, or coercion to obtain sex or sexual acts; shaming a woman’s sexuality or sexual preferences; and/or not respecting a woman’s sexual or physical privacy.

In a relationship in which IPSV is present, sexual violence is used to gain power and control over a partner.


IPSV includes but is not limited to the following:


coerced or forced oral, anal, or vaginal intercourse


violent sex (physical abuse before, during, or after sex)


forced participation in group sex, or sex with another person, or sex with partner watching or in front of children


unwanted sexual touching or being forced to touch


making degrading sexual taunts


forced involvement in making or watching pornography


sexual exploitation


use of technology to victimize


using sex to prove faithfulness


withholding affection if sexual demands are not met

While most IPSV takes place in relationships where additional forms of violence are present, IPSV does occur in relationships not characterized by other violence.


IPSV often occurs repeatedly within a relationship:

In a 2010 survey, 80% of survivors accessing BWSS services reported they had been sexually assaulted by their partners. IPSV can be a serious risk factor for domestic homicide: A physically-abused woman who is also experiencing sexual violence was more than seven times more likely than other abused women to be killed.

The presence of physical abuse, pregnancy, illness, and attempting to leave or being separated or divorced from a partner are all associated with higher levels of IPSV.

IPSV can be present in same-gender/same-sex relationships. One study found that 70% of lesbians indicated experiencing incidents of IPSV. Partners may threaten to ‘out’ their partners if sexual demands are not met. Lesbian and trans women experiencing IPSV face additional barriers in seeking support because of the erroneous belief that SV cannot exist in same gender/same-sex relationships.

IPSV can be present in same-gender/same-sex relationships. One study found that 70% of lesbians indicated experiencing incidents of IPSV. Partners may threaten to ‘out’ their partners if sexual demands are not met. Lesbian and trans women experiencing IPSV face additional barriers in seeking support because of the erroneous belief that SV cannot exist in same gender/same-sex relationships.

IPSV carries with it the same impacts as domestic violence and sexual violence.

However, because it rests at the intersection of both of these forms of violence, it also involves a number of unique impacts:

Difficulty defining the act(s) as sexual assault:

Women are socialized to see rape as involving non-consensual sex between two strangers. Additionally, women may be reluctant to define a partner she loves as a ‘rapist.’ For these and other reasons, a woman experiencing IPSV may have trouble naming her experience as one of sexual assault. This difficulty in identifying an experience as sexual assault can increase the severity of many of the additional impacts.

Longer-lasting trauma:

Despite the common assumption that IPSV does not hold as severe an impact as sexual assault by a stranger, research indicates that the trauma resulting from IPSV can in fact be longer lasting and more severe. In part, this is because IPSV survivors face unique challenges around recognizing and naming an act as sexual assault, as well as increased barriers and reluctance to tell others and seek support.

Higher levels of physical injury:

While not all sexual assaults include additional physical violence beyond sexual violence, those that do involve injury are likely to be intimate partner sexual assaults. Because IPSV victims experience repeated abuse, the likelihood of physical injury and trauma increases.

Higher incidence of multiple sexual assaults:

leaving a relationship, it is important that safety IPSV often occurs repeatedly in a relationship, issues are considered in light of the presence of and IPSV survivors suffer the highest frequency of multiple sexual assaults. This experience of repeated assaults differentiates IPSV from sexual assault perpetrated by a stranger and carries unique consequences for healing and impacts.

Higher levels of anal and oral rape:

Incidents of IPSV appear to be characterized by higher levels of anal and oral rape. These forms of assault are seen as strategies partner perpetrators use to humiliate, punish, and take ‘full’ ownership of their partners.

Advice to ‘put up with’ sexual assault and other forms of secondary wounding:

The commonly held misconception that sexual assault within an intimate relationship is not sexual assault holds a number of repercussions for IPSV survivors who may reach out for help. Marital rape survivors are prone to be advised by church, family, or friends that it is their “wifely duty” to submit to sex with a partner. Similarly, IPSV survivors may face criticism, judgement, or not be taken seriously by police, the legal system or other service providers who continue to perpetuate erroneous beliefs around IPSV and SV in general.

Financial dependency:

Perpetrators of IPSV may use a woman’s financial dependency to engage in coercive sexual assault. Furthermore, by using various strategies to further compromise a woman’s independence (i.e. not permitting her any money or employment), a perpetrator may further entrench his ability to engage in sexually violent behaviours.

A general climate of sexual assault:

Women living with IPSV may face a host of other behaviors than rape that would not be acceptable if committed by strangers, such as their breasts being hurt, being forced to touch the perpetrator sexually, and degrading name calling.

Potential Fatality:

Women who experience sexual assault in addition to physical violence are at a higher risk for homicide than women who are physically abused but not raped. Furthermore, because women are at an increased risk when leaving a relationship, it is important that safety issues are considered in light of the presence of IPSV.

Deliberately Inflicted Pregnancy or STIs:

Women experiencing IPSV may face the additional impact of unwanted or deliberately inflicted pregnancy in which men rape to impregnate their partners in order to force them to remain in or return to the relationship.

Psychological Effects, including shame and confusion:

Women experiencing IPSV often carry a variety of psychological effects including depression, suicide, PTSD, anxiety, fear, self- blame, low self-esteem, and guilt. Additionally, women survivors of IPSV may experience intense self-blame, shame, and confusion.


Women may struggle with confusion in a number of ways unique to IPSV.

If women are not able to name or label their experience as sexual assault they are less likely to view the impacts they are experiencing as related to the sexual violence: “because they were sexually assaulted or abused by an intimate partner, they frequently don’t identify as victims of rape or sexual assault, yet they are experiencing emotions as a survivor of sexual assault.”

Survivors of IPSV may experience confusion that is rooted in their inability to trust their own judgement, the sense of betrayal they feel at their partner, or societal beliefs that repeatedly deny her experience as one of sexual violence.

Self-blame & Shame:

Women may experience intense self-blame and shame for a variety of reasons unique to IPSV.

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