Ending Violence Blog

Do we stand by as the world is consumed by destructive forces, or do we choose the courage and responsibility needed to build a different future?

Recognizing that the “Friend Zone” does not exist empowers us to foster a culture that prioritizes consent and personal autonomy, effectively challenging the pervasive ideologies that underlie gender-based violence and inequality.

Leaving an abusive partner can be one of the hardest things a person does. Afterward, it’s common to experience a range of emotions, including depression, guilt, anger, loss, and sadness. Remember: There is no right way to feel or heal after you leave an abusive partner.

When facing the difficult decision of whether to end a relationship—especially one marked by unhealthy or abusive dynamics—it’s important to acknowledge your feelings, fears, and hopes. You know your situation best, including how you feel about your partner. But one thing is clear: your safety and well-being are non-negotiable priorities. Whatever choice you make, you are not alone.

The BC Government’s recognition of gender-based violence as an epidemic in its recent mandate letters signals an overdue acknowledgment of the pervasive crisis faced by women, girls, and gender-diverse individuals. While this recognition is necessary, it is not sufficient. BWSS calls for bold and immediate action to address the structural inequalities and entrenched systems that perpetuate this violence.

At BWSS, we hear from women who access our programs wondering if they’re making the right decision about dating—whether it’s about a specific person or dating in general. The truth is simple: only you can decide what’s best for you!

BWSS is calling for bold action: the expansion of rent subsidies tailored to the needs of women and children fleeing violence. This measure can create a pathway from crisis to stability, providing a tangible opportunity for survivors to rebuild their lives with dignity.

In a healthy relationship, both people should feel completely at ease with the level of physical intimacy—whether it’s holding hands, kissing, touching, or having sex. One thing you should always have control over is how far you’re comfortable going with your romantic partner, crush, or even someone you’re casually seeing. Your voice matters, and you should never feel pressured into doing anything you don’t want to do.

A deeper analysis is required to understand what’s at stake—not only for Canada’s economic and political stability but also for the lives and safety of marginalized groups, particularly women and Indigenous communities.

Intimate partner violence (IPV) manifests in many forms, all of which cause profound harm to victims and survivors, who are disproportionately women and children. In August, the Minister of Justice and Attorney General of Canada declared that gender-based violence is an epidemic…

A note that says “I love you”… For many, it’s a tender message. But for someone escaping intimate partner violence, finding this note—written in their abusive partner’s handwriting—on their workplace desk or the door of their new apartment can be a chilling sign: their stalker has found them and plans to continue the abuse.

Matricide, the act of a son killing his mother, represents one of the most disturbing and tragic forms of gender-based violence. While statistically rare, it reveals a deeply entrenched intersection of mental health crises, misogyny, patriarchal values, and systemic failures…