Ending Violence Blog

Via our award winning blog Battered Women’s Support Services provides education and advocacy as we work towards the elimination of violence.
9 Quiet Truths People Learn After Femicide in Canada

9 Quiet Truths People Learn After Femicide in Canada

In 2025, 147 women and girls were violently killed in Canada, most often by men they knew. Research from the Canadian Femicide Observatory for Justice and Accountability shows these deaths follow recognizable patterns: gendered violence, killings in private spaces,...

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Pregnancy, Militarized Violence, and Gender-Based Violence


Pregnancy, Militarized Violence, and Gender-Based Violence


  War reorganizes gender-based violence and violence against women. When we read Labor Amid Displacement: How Lebanon’s Midwives are Carrying Expecting Mothers Through War, we cried. We connected deeply and profoundly with the realities being described, and with the...

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How Class Protects Abusive Partners

How Class Protects Abusive Partners

Domestic violence is often framed as an issue associated with poverty, instability, or social disadvantage. While economic stress can certainly intensify violence, this narrative obscures an important reality: abuse occurs across all social classes. In affluent...

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Leaving violence requires more than courage.

Leaving violence requires more than courage.

Across British Columbia, many survivors of intimate partner violence are making decisions about their safety while navigating housing shortages, financial instability, and limited access to childcare. Leaving violence is not simply a personal decision, the systems...

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Abuse Almost Always Escalates

Abuse Almost Always Escalates

  Escalation is not accidental. It is often a pattern rooted in control. Many survivors describe how abuse changes over time, increased monitoring, stricter rules, threats that grow more explicit, or the first acts of physical violence. These shifts are not isolated...

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Toughening Up Sons

Toughening Up Sons

Not all “toughening up” is about helping boys grow. Sometimes it is about control. In families where abuse is present, some fathers push boys toward rigid, aggressive ideas of masculinity, shaming vulnerability, discouraging emotional expression, or using fear to...

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The Big Deal about Belittling

The Big Deal about Belittling

“Belittling isn’t conflict. It’s a strategy.” Belittling is often minimized as teasing, sarcasm, or “just a joke.” But survivors tell us that repeated insults, humiliation, and dismissive comments are rarely accidental, they are patterns used by an abusive partner to...

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10 Early Warning Signs Public Safety Systems Often Ignore

10 Early Warning Signs Public Safety Systems Often Ignore

“Public safety systems often wait for bruises. Survivors recognize the warning signs much earlier.” Many survivors describe verbal abuse and psychological harm long before violence becomes visible. Insults behind closed doors, unpredictable outbursts, belittling when...

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