She Was Doing Everything Right. The System Wasn’t.

She Was Doing Everything Right. The System Wasn’t.

Bailey McCourt was a mother of two, trying to rebuild her life after surviving intimate partner violence. She had done what the system told her to do—she reported the abuse, engaged with both criminal and family court, and trusted that legal system would protect her and her daughters.

She was raising her children, one of whom was his.

Her ex-partner was charged with choking and threatening her. He was released on bail with a $500 deposit. Charges continued to accumulate. And still, she tried to navigate parenting, safety, and survival—while he remained free.

On July 4, 2025, he was convicted of assault. He walked out of court. Hours later, he killed her with a hammer.

This happened in Kelowna, British Columbia. But it could have happened in any city, in any country where the violence of men is minimized, where legal systems delay action, and where victims are expected to keep themselves safe while offenders are given time, leniency, and second chances.

This wasn’t a tragedy. It was a systemic failure.

Who Was Responsible for Keeping Her Safe?

This case involved multiple institutions:

  • RCMP Domestic Violence Unit, which presumably was monitoring his case and was responsible for enforcing conditions.
  • Crown Counsel, who chose not to seek detention post-conviction.
  • Provincial Court Judges, who scheduled sentencing months out and allowed him to remain free.
  • Family Court, which was managing parenting time and safety for the two daughters—one of them his.
  • Bail Supervision and Corrections, tasked with ensuring compliance.
  • Community-based services, most likely offered to him—likely not backed by mandatory accountability or structured risk monitoring.

Why Services for Abusive Men Alone Aren’t Enough

There is often a quiet assumption that if an abusive man is offered counselling or support services, risk is being addressed.

But offering services to someone who poses a serious risk is not the same as ensuring safety for the person they’ve harmed.

What This Case Reveals—Everywhere

Around the world, femicide follows a hauntingly familiar pattern. A woman reports abuse. The perpetrator is already known to police. Charges are laid, but the court system delays. Institutions retreat behind procedure. And in the end, she is left unprotected—exposed to the very violence she sought protection from.

These are not unfortunate oversights or isolated lapses. They are deliberate choices made by systems that were never truly designed to protect survivors. The mechanisms of justice remain structured around containment of process, not prevention of harm.

What Must Change—Now

To end this pattern, we must stop treating gender-based violence and violence against women as a private matter or a peripheral concern. It must be understood and addressed as a central public safety crisis.

This begins with the mandatory and universal use of standardized gender specific risk assessments in both criminal and family court. When lethality indicators are present, post-conviction detention must be the default—not the exception.

We need real-time coordination across all actors in the system: police, Crown counsel, the judiciary, family law, and community supervision. These institutions must stop working in silos. Lives depend on it.

Above all, we need a fundamental shift in orientation. The organizing principle of every intervention must be victim-survivor safety—not procedural efficiency or deference to the accused’s freedom.

This Was Preventable. And It Is Not Unique.

Had three women in British Columbia been killed by a stranger in the same week, the province would have declared a public emergency. There would have been news conferences, inter-ministerial meetings, and swift policy action.

But because the danger came from partners and ex-partners—because it was intimate violence, not random—the system remained silent.

This case is not about one courtroom or one man. It is about a structure that persistently refuses to treat male violence as a systemic threat. And it is about the cost of that refusal—paid in the lives of women like Bailey McCourt, again and again.

Bailey deserved to be protected. Her daughters deserved to grow up with their mother. The public deserves institutions that will finally say “never again”—and act like they mean it.

 

He Was Convicted—Then Walked Out of Court to Kill His Ex-Wife and the Mother of His Child – allegedly

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What the murder of Bailey McCourt reveals about a justice system that still doesn’t take women’s lives seriously.

Bailey McCourt did everything she was told to do.

  1. She reported the abuse.
  2. She went to court.
  3. She trusted the process.

And still, the system failed her.

James Plover, the man who murdered Bailey (allegedly), had already been convicted of assaulting her. That assault included choking—one of the most well-established warning signs of lethal intimate partner violence. In any functioning public safety system, that conviction would have triggered immediate and coordinated intervention. In British Columbia, it triggered his release.

Despite the conviction, the charges were stayed. The risk was not reassessed. He walked free.
And days later, Bailey was dead.

This wasn’t a failure of knowledge. It was a failure of will at all levels of the system as outlined in Dr. Kim Stanton’s systemic review of the legal system in BC.

A Missed Chance to Prevent Femicide

Strangulation is not just another form of violence. It is a documented precursor to homicide. Studies show that women who are strangled by their partners are seven times more likely to be killed later. In courtrooms, that data is available. To Crown Counsel, it is familiar. To police and risk assessors, it is supposed to be a red flag.

So why didn’t anyone act?

Because in British Columbia, there is still no standardized lethality risk assessment tool used consistently across criminal and family law. And there is still no accountability in the criminal or family law legal systems.
Because prosecutors are not required to factor femicide risk into decisions about charges or sentencing.
Because there is no provincial fatality review process that tracks what’s being missed—until another woman is killed.

Bailey’s case was treated like a routine assault. Not as part of a dangerous, escalating pattern.

A Structural Collapse, Not a Tragic Anomaly

This is not about one woman and one man. This is about how the entire system continues to deprioritize women’s safety—even when the evidence is right in front of them. The Crown stayed the charges. The court released a convicted abuser. No agency reassessed risk or intervened. That’s not a glitch in the system—it is the system.

And it’s not unique to Bailey McCourt.

She is now one of three women killed in one week in British Columbia in connection to intimate partner violence. 
And yet, the silence continues.
No coordinated response. No ministerial action.
Just another passive investigation.

As we’ve said before:
If three women had been killed by a stranger, there would be a public emergency.
So why is it different when it’s their partner?

What Real Safety Looks Like

At Battered Women’s Support Services, we are not waiting.
We are building public safety frameworks that are #DesignedWithSurvivors—because survivors already know what safety requires.

Through our initiative, we are:

  • Coordinating with municipalities, public health, real estate, housing, and anti-violence organizations to strengthen local intervention
  • Training first responders to recognize patterns, not just incidents
  •  Building prevention initiatives to roll out this Fall
  • Supporting survivors through court systems that too often retraumatize rather than protect
  • Advancing a real-time, cross-sector strategy to implement the recommendations from Dr. Kim Stanton’s report

More than 100 organizations and individuals have joined us in building the infrastructure we need—because this work cannot wait for another tragedy.

This Was Preventable and there is no justice in a conviction that leads to a funeral.
There is no safety in a system that looks away when women report, when they testify, when they plead to be believed.

And there is no excuse for inaction when the warning signs are this clear.

Bailey McCourt deserved a system that worked.

She didn’t get it.

If Three Women Had Been Killed by a Stranger, There’d Be a Public Emergency She Was Killed. But the System’s Response Wasn’t Built for Her. Another woman is dead in British Columbia.

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If Three Women Had Been Killed by a Stranger, There’d Be a Public Emergency

She Was Killed. But the System’s Response Wasn’t Built for Her.

Another woman is dead in British Columbia.

On July 7, RCMP responded to a domestic violence call in Surrey. Inside the home, a woman was found murdered. Her partner was shot and killed by police. Homicide detectives are now investigating her death. The Independent Investigations Office (IIO) is reviewing the police shooting.

And yet, in three official press releases—issued by the RCMP, IHIT and IIO—there is no mention of femicide. No use of the words gender-based violence or violence against women. No recognition that this was an intimate partner killing.

This is the third woman killed in British Columbia in less than a week in the context of intimate partner violence.

Bailey McCourt, murdered in Kelowna.

An unnamed woman, killed in Abbotsford in a suspected murder-suicide.

And now, another woman murdered during a domestic violence call in Surrey.

If these deaths had occurred in public, at random, or at the hands of strangers, the response would look very different. There would be province-wide coordination. Press briefings. Emergency plans. Urgent statements from leadership.

But when the perpetrator is a partner, a boyfriend, or a husband, the urgency fades. The language softens. And the woman’s life is quietly folded into a passive investigation—her story obscured by procedural tone and sanitized phrases.

This violence is not a mystery, and it doesn’t happen in isolation—it follows a pattern we’ve seen before, and too often, we ignore.

Forty-eight percent of women and girls in British Columbia have experienced intimate partner violence. That’s not a crisis. That’s a collapse.

In January 2025, Premier David Eby declared gender-based violence a national epidemic. He directed ministries to act urgently and in coordination, to reflect the interests and realities of survivors, and to ensure the justice system responds to the needs of those fleeing violence

The Attorney General holds Dr. Kim Stanton’s report, which outlines clear, actionable steps that could have prevented deaths like these. The Gender Equity Office leads the Safe and Supported Action Plan, but with no cross-ministerial enforcement or oversight. Public Safety mandate doesn’t prioritize gender-based violence or violence against women at all.

No one appears responsible for coordinating action. While government waits for alignment, women are being murdered.

But declarations without structure are just headlines.

And while the government has the tools—like Dr. Kim Stanton’s report, which lays out clear, survivor-informed recommendations—implementation is uncertain.

There is no standardized lethality risk assessment in criminal or family law.
There is no cross-ministerial mechanism to track or prevent femicide.
And there is no provincial fatality review process to learn from women’s deaths—so the same patterns keep repeating.

BWSS is not waiting.

Through our #DesignedWithSurvivors initiative, we are creating a real-time, community-rooted framework for public safety: one that centres survivors, trains first responders, supports court navigation, and strengthens cross-sector collaboration. We are doing the work now—because every day without action is another risk. More than 100 organizations and individuals across B.C. have joined us. Because violence doesn’t end with a disclosure. It ends when the systems around her stop deferring action.

We urge media, government, and oversight bodies to stop describing these deaths in neutral terms and start confronting what they reveal: a system that recognizes violence too late and responds too little.

Femicide is not an anomaly. It is a measurable, preventable consequence of policy inaction and fragmented systems.

This moment calls for more than reflection. It demands a shift in power, practice, and political will. If gender-based violence is the emergency we say it is, then every institution must behave accordingly—by changing how it intervenes, how it invests, and who it listens to.

Women are not dying from lack of awareness. They are dying in the absence of infrastructure that knows how to protect them. The failure is not personal. It is structural.

Let this not be another week of mourning. Let it be a rupture in the status quo. A moment when we finally decide to build what has never fully existed: a safety net designed for her to survive.

To join #DesignedWithSurvivors email us at endingviolence@bwss.org

 

Power, Violence, and Impunity: What the Diddy Verdict Reveals — and What It Demands

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This week, a U.S. federal jury delivered a partial verdict in the high-profile trial of Sean “Diddy” Combs. He was acquitted of sex trafficking and racketeering charges, but convicted of transporting two women — including singer Casandra “Cassie” Ventura — across state lines for the purpose of prostitution. While these charges carry a sentence of up to 20 years, many are asking: Why weren’t the most serious charges upheld?

As a Canadian organization working to end gender-based violence, BWSS rarely comments on cases outside our jurisdiction. But this moment — like the Ghomeshi trial, the Epstein revelations, or the collapse of Weinstein’s empire — isn’t just about one man. It’s about the systems that surround and protect men like him.

The Diddy case makes clear what survivors have been saying for decades:

Abuse doesn’t happen in isolation. It happens with the help of silence, complicity, and institutions that value power over people.

Whether in the U.S. or Canada, survivors are still blamed, disbelieved, or treated as unreliable narrators of their own harm — especially when the person who harmed them is powerful, rich, or famous.

It’s not just celebrity culture. In Canada, Crown counsel routinely decline to pursue sexual assault and intimate partner violence charges, even when women report, even when there is corroborating evidence. The result? Survivors are retraumatized, and the message is clear: violence is allowed.

At BWSS, we support survivors navigating these failures every day. We see the impact of under-prosecution, of media gaslighting, and of institutions that ask, “Why didn’t you leave?” instead of, “Why did he abuse?”
Let’s be clear:

  • Transporting women across borders to exploit them sexually is not a lesser crime.
  • When someone wields fame to harm, coerce, and control, that’s not seduction — it’s violence.
  • And when systems protect perpetrators instead of survivors, that’s not justice — it’s impunity.
  • We will continue to advocate for survivor-centred, trauma- and violence-informed justice systems — in Canada and beyond. Because public safety must be designed with survivors in mind.
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Beyond Declarations: The Path Forward on Gender-Based Violence in British Columbia

In January 2025, Premier David Eby formally recognized gender-based violence (GBV) as a national epidemic. In his mandate letter to Minister of Finance Brenda Bailey, the Premier directed her to:

“Work with partners to address the national epidemic of gender-based violence as it relates to our province, and work with stakeholders to ensure that government programs and initiatives reflect the interests and concerns of people with lived experience.

 

Work with the Minister of Housing and Municipal Affairs and the Attorney General to ensure that we are meeting our targets on delivering accessible transition housing for women fleeing violence, and that the justice system is responsive to the needs of survivors of gender-based violence.”

This recognition was overdue—but critical. It acknowledged what survivors, advocates, and frontline workers have been saying for decades: GBV and violence against women are not private tragedies. They are public safety emergencies—structural, enduring, and woven into the very systems meant to protect.

But a declaration is not implementation. And symbolism is not safety.

Last week, Dr. Kim Stanton released her final report following an independent review of
BC’s justice system response to intimate partner and sexual violence. Her findings are as clear as they are
damning: survivors are routinely disbelieved, retraumatized, and failed. These are not isolated
missteps—they are systemic patterns.

Her report outlines four overarching barriers that prevent meaningful justice and safety:

  • Silos between and within institutions prevent coordinated, survivor-informed responses.
  • Lack of accountability means government actors face few consequences when failing to follow law or policy.
  • Failure to understand the costs of inaction, including the human and financial toll of systemic neglect.
  • Lack of intersectional analysis, which ignores how race, Indigeneity, gender identity, immigration status, and poverty shape experiences of violence and access to justice.

These systemic failures mirror what BWSS documented in our Colour of Violence report and our analysis Justice: Or Just a Piece of Paper? —the devastating impact of institutional neglect and the ways survivors are pushed out of systems designed without them in mind.

Dr. Stanton also highlighted the lived consequences of these failures. Survivors often face:

  • Profound lack of confidence in the legal system
  • Fear of criminalization or reprisal
  • Inadequate access to legal, health, and housing supports
  • Ongoing social and economic vulnerability
  • Shame, stigma, and self-blame
  • The impacts of systemic racism and colonialism
  • Fear of child apprehension

These are not hypothetical risks. They are the real and persistent conditions under which survivors are forced to navigate for safety—and survival.

Dr. Stanton’s report includes nine concrete recommendations that chart a way forward:

  1. The declaration of GBV as an epidemic must be operationalized. It must inform policy, resourcing,
    and public communication across ministries.
  2. Internal government accountability mechanisms must be established to ensure every ministry
    fulfills its obligations.
  3. A Gender-Based Violence Commissioner must be appointed to provide independent oversight and
    drive cross-sector implementation.
  4. Prevention must be prioritized through education, housing supports, and standardized risk
    assessments in criminal and family law.
  5. Community-based supports must be strengthened with long-term investment in frontline, trauma-
    informed services.
  6. Cross-sector collaboration must deepen, including regional hubs that integrate legal, housing,
    health, and culturally safe services.
  7. A standing GBV Death Review Committee must be created to ensure systemic learning from every
    femicide.
  8. A collaborative GBV data strategy must be developed to capture disaggregated data and track
    outcomes.
  9. The Violence Against Women in Relationships (VAWIR) policy must be updated and transformed
    into enforceable legislation.

At BWSS, these recommendations reflect the direction we are already moving. Through our
#DesignedWithSurvivors initiative, we are advancing a public safety agenda built on five core strategies:

  • Legal and justice reform, including prosecutorial transparency and standardized risk assessment
  • Public and youth education to prevent violence before it starts
  • Expanded community-based supports, housing, and trauma and violence-informed services
  • Cross-sector accountability from police, Crown counsel, and courts
  • Whole-of-government implementation that is transparent, coordinated, and measurable

We are also actively:

  • Calling for independent oversight of Crown counsel and public reporting on charge approval rates
  • Conducting a critical analysis of restorative justice programs that fall short in IPV and sexual
    violence cases
  • Meeting with municipal leaders and provincial partners to co-create local safety strategies rooted in
    lived experience

This is the work ahead. It’s not flashy. It’s not symbolic. It’s difficult, detailed, and urgent. It requires moving
from words to systems, from recognition to transformation.

Dr. Stanton’s report is not the beginning. It is confirmation. It validates what survivors have told us for
years—and what frontline organizations like BWSS have long made visible.

The declaration is done. The roadmap is here. Now, the work begins. Survivors have waited long enough.
Let’s ensure this moment becomes the turning point—not just another talking point.

Statement from Battered Women’s Support Services on Ongoing Institutional Failures to Protect Indigenous Girls

The recent June 2025 disappearance of a 12-year-old Indigenous girl has once again exposed the deep and ongoing failures of police institutions to uphold their responsibilities to children—especially Indigenous girls—who are made vulnerable by systemic neglect and racism.

Despite decades of public inquiries, commissions, and commitments to do better, police continue to use harmful and dehumanizing language that shifts blame onto children rather than recognizing their right to protection and care. Describing a missing 12-year-old as engaging in a “high-risk lifestyle” is not only factually incorrect—it is an act of institutional violence. This framing diminishes urgency, emboldens predators, and signals to the public that some lives matter less.

We are particularly alarmed that this failure occurred under the leadership of individuals who were directly involved in the Vancouver Police Department during the era of the Missing Women Commission of Inquiry. There is no excuse. The lessons were clear. The calls for justice were loud. And yet, the patterns persist.

At BWSS, we have worked iwith police agencies across the province for over 40 years, providing training, consultation, and crisis response rooted in feminist, decolonial, and trauma-informed practice. We have also been unwavering in our accountability demands when these institutions fail to act in the best interests of survivors.

We are calling for:

  1. A full public retraction of the harmful language used in this case.
  2. Immediate reforms to communication protocols to reflect trauma- and violence-informed, child-centred standards.
  3. A formal public apology to the child, her family, and Indigenous communities.
  4. A meeting between police leadership and community organizations—including Indigenous- anti-violence, women’s and youth-led groups—to address systemic failures in how missing Indigenous girls are treated.

We also lift up and thank our colleagues at Justice for Girls for their leadership in calling for an Amber Alert in this case, and we express deep appreciation to the broader coalition of organizations who are mobilizing to demand accountability.

The institutions responsible for public safety must stop retraumatizing communities already burdened by grief, erasure, and injustice. The failure to act with urgency and respect in the disappearance of an Indigenous child is not a public relations mistake—it is a moral failure with life-and-death consequences.

We will continue to fight for a system where Indigenous girls are seen, protected, and valued—not criminalized, dismissed, or forgotten.