Ending Violence Blog

Via our award winning blog Battered Women’s Support Services provides education and advocacy as we work towards the elimination of violence.
Leaving violence requires more than courage.

Leaving violence requires more than courage.

Across British Columbia, many survivors of intimate partner violence are making decisions about their safety while navigating housing shortages, financial instability, and limited access to childcare. Leaving violence is not simply a personal decision, the systems...

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Abuse Almost Always Escalates

Abuse Almost Always Escalates

  Escalation is not accidental. It is often a pattern rooted in control. Many survivors describe how abuse changes over time, increased monitoring, stricter rules, threats that grow more explicit, or the first acts of physical violence. These shifts are not isolated...

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Toughening Up Sons

Toughening Up Sons

Not all “toughening up” is about helping boys grow. Sometimes it is about control. In families where abuse is present, some fathers push boys toward rigid, aggressive ideas of masculinity, shaming vulnerability, discouraging emotional expression, or using fear to...

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The Big Deal about Belittling

The Big Deal about Belittling

“Belittling isn’t conflict. It’s a strategy.” Belittling is often minimized as teasing, sarcasm, or “just a joke.” But survivors tell us that repeated insults, humiliation, and dismissive comments are rarely accidental, they are patterns used by an abusive partner to...

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10 Early Warning Signs Public Safety Systems Often Ignore

10 Early Warning Signs Public Safety Systems Often Ignore

“Public safety systems often wait for bruises. Survivors recognize the warning signs much earlier.” Many survivors describe verbal abuse and psychological harm long before violence becomes visible. Insults behind closed doors, unpredictable outbursts, belittling when...

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Latin American Women’s Counsellor

Latin American Women’s Counsellor

Latin American Women’s Counsellor Full-Time Permanent | 40 hours/week Start Date: March 9th,2026Schedule: Monday–Friday, 9:00 am–5:00 pm (some evenings required)Classification: Grid 14P | Union position | Hourly Rate: $40.03Location: Vancouver, BC (in-person position)...

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Police-Officer-Involved Domestic Violence 

Police-Officer-Involved Domestic Violence 

When the person causing harm carries institutional power, safety can look very different. Recent investigative reporting by CBC News, led by journalist Julie Ireton, has helped bring renewed public attention to what many survivors have been telling us for decades:...

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Holding the Tumbler Ridge Community in Care

Holding the Tumbler Ridge Community in Care

Today we are holding the Tumbler Ridge community, and the wider South Peace region, in our hearts. We are thinking of the lives lost, those who are injured and receiving care in hospital, and all who are carrying shock and grief in the wake of this violence. What has...

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