For many mothers, home isn’t always a safe place. Recently, we told you about Jade and shared her story as a mother who escaped years of abuse to protect her two sons, only to experience post-separation abuse after she left him.
Jade and her children survived because people like you believed in her, so she could stand in her power and continue to heal.
Mothers who navigate violence by their husbands, partners, and children’s fathers, while raising children, show immeasurable strength. You may be unable to fix it, but you can stand beside her. Here’s how to support a mother experiencing violence:
- Believe her – If she opens up, it’s a big step. Listen without judgment. Your belief can offer the trust she’s been denied elsewhere.
- Offer practical help – A ride. Childcare. A safe spot to rest or make a call. These small acts of care can open real pathways to safety.
- Know the resources – Have local crisis lines, shelters, and advocacy services in mind—so when she’s ready, you can guide her toward support, not pressure.
- Respect her privacy – Her story isn’t yours to tell. Never share without her consent. Her safety and dignity come first, always.
- Remind her she’s not alone – Violence isolates. Your steady, compassionate presence can be a lifeline—something to hold onto when everything else feels unsafe.
This Mother’s Day, honour a mother’s resilience by standing with her. Support is powerful. Let her know you are here.
