A Better Man Screens in Vancouver with REEL Causes, We Can BC and BWSS

In advance of November 25th the International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women, BWSS is pleased to join REEL Causes and WE Can BC for a special screening of A Better Man.

A Better Man documents a personal experiment for me and my abusive ex-partner — a step towards understanding and accountability. By getting closer to the truth of what survivors experience, and of why men choose to use violence, we can help stop the abuse. I hope that sharing my personal search for justice and healing will contribute to the struggle to end domestic violence.”
– Attiya Khan, Co-Director

 

Please join us

Who:       BWSS with REEL Causes and We Can BC
What:       A film screening of A Better Man
Where:    SFU Woodward’s, 149 West Hastings Street, Vancouver, Coast Salish Territory
When:     Thursday, November 23 Time:  7:00 pm to 9:45 pm
Why:        International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women
How:        For Tickets, please use the code CAUSE112317

Stay after the film for a panel discussion with Catherine Kendall, director at We Can BC and Angela Marie MacDougall, executive director at BWSS.  The panel will be moderated by Dr. Lucia Lorenzi, a postdoctoral fellow in the Department of English and Cultural Studies at McMaster University.

Dr. Lucia LorenziDr. Lucia Lorenzi is a postdoctoral fellow in the Department of English and Cultural Studies at McMaster University. Her research focuses on representations of sexual violence in literature and other media, and her current project looks at stories and films written by or featuring perpetrators. In addition to her academic research, she is an anti-violence activist and consultant.

 

Catharine Kendall has been involved with We Can BC since 2009 and has been a Director since 2011. She has seen many changes within the Society and across the country in regards to approaches to end violence against women. Catharine shares that we are finally starting to see some real changes as new generations are growing up with a zero tolerance towards violence against women, but there is still lots of work to do within policy development, systems change, within our families and our communities. Catharine had her own personal journey living with an abusive partner, dealing with the RCMP that turned a blind eye, investing years in court action for Restraining Orders that had little merit and living in a safe house to keep herself and her son out of harms way. Catharine believes that a strong and resourceful community creates the fastest change. Catharine lives in North Central British Columbia and represents the North and a rural perspective for We Can BC. Catharine offers horse therapy to vulnerable children, youth and families in need at her 5 acre Be Herd Wellness Centre facility in downtown Prince George. Catharine has her own Community Development business, is active with a number of non profits, and is the Executive Director of a youth centre.

 

Angela Marie MacDougallAngela Marie MacDougall is Executive Director at Battered Women’s Support Services. For almost thirty years, Angela’s work as an advocate, activist, and front-line worker has brought tangible transformation to service and program delivery as well as community development. Angela is strategic and proactive and continues to strengthen connections within the community and beyond. Her many years of steadfast commitment and tremendous work are what have raised Battered Women’s Support Services profile as an organization. She works tirelessly for the elimination of violence against women daily, in every aspect of her being.

A Better Man Screens in Vancouver with REEL Causes, We Can BC and BWSS

This is the second time BWSS partnered with REEL Causes.  In 2014, we were pleased to co-host a screening of Crime after Crime to draw attention to women criminalized for self-defending in domestic violence situations.

Local Activists Imagine a World of Freedom & Justice

“Don’t we want to be able to imagine the expansion of freedom and justice in the world…?”

-Angela Davis

 
Leading up to Angela Davis appearance at the Orpheum Theatre on November 29th, 2017, BWSS asked local activists to share how they envision a world of freedom and justice. Here’s what an urban planner, book seller, advocate for women’s liberation, CEO, Indigenous lawyer, Poet and a member from BLM Vancouver have to say…

 

Stephanie Allen

“When I was growing up, the ideals of justice and freedom were discussed on a regular basis in my home. On my mother’s side we are descended from enslaved Africans stolen from their homeland and forced to spend the duration of their lives in a foreign place, never seeing their native soil again; tortured, raped, and stripped of their language, names, and entire way of being in the world. It’s a history my mother ensured that we knew from a very young age so that we would stay grounded in where we came from, to never forget the thousands of lives that were bought and paid for so that I may have the freedoms I enjoy today.

And while a tremendous distance has been traveled by my ancestors to deliver me to this point in history, from inside the holding cells at the Door of No Return on the West coast of Africa to the life I live today, people of African descent, Indigenous and racialized people are still not fully free; justice remains just beyond reach. The reminders are daily that tell me to keep going, to keep dreaming, and to stay in pursuit of freedom and justice. From the daily pin pricks of micro-aggression’s that positions one as “other” for having thick hair, brown skin, or a non-Eurocentric culture, to the denial of economic opportunities that have a lasting impact on the trajectory of one’s life, we must continue to work towards the ideals of freedom and justice. People of African descent and Indigenous peoples are uniquely positioned to lead what one of our greatest modern inspirations, Nelson Mandela, called the Long Walk to Freedom. Let’s keep going.”

Stephanie Allen is Vice President of Project Planning and Partnerships for Catalyst Community Developments Society.  She is finishing a Masters of Urban Studies and advocates for affordable housing as a means to create more just societies.

 

Patricia Massy

“I think a world of freedom and justice begins in the most intimate areas of our lives, from our personal relationships to our communities, where people work to support one another, but also stand together against the systems and social constructs that work to oppress us. I imagine a world like this would be the outcome of individual healing and the masses rising up, where humans have been liberated from all forms of oppression.”

Patricia Massy is of Cree/English descent and is the proprietor of Massy Books, a new and used bookstore that is 100% Indigenous owned and operated. She believes stories have the power to heal and connect us to our humanity.

 

Jessica Ly

“What does a world of freedom and justice look like? To me, a world of freedom and justice empowers and allows all women, minorities and victims of assault/abuse to speak truths without fear. It offers us the freedom to be who we are and justly persecutes those who threaten or violate that freedom. This world provides the respect and security that should be granted to all people regardless of gender, sexual orientation or skin color. I am saddened, angered and frustrated that this is has to be a question…A world of freedom and justice should not be imagined, it should be a given and I am hopeful that this world is now becoming possible with the concerted efforts of many!”

Jessica Ly has been a supporter of women and girls rights since she could speak (and protest!). She believes women and girls are the agents of change in this world and she is honored to have the opportunity to work with all the amazing women striving to make a difference and supporting one another on this journey.

 

 

Jennifer Johnstone

“When I imagine a world of freedom and justice, I imagine a world in which all people, including all women,  are safe, where basic health and social services are assured, where suitable, affordable housing is in abundance, where jobs, reliable income and opportunities are at hand, where arts and recreation flourish, where neighbours are connected, and everyone, including all our children, can learn and play in a caring community in which we all belong.”

Jennifer Johnstone is the President & CEO of Central City Foundation, an organization that has been working to improve lives in Vancouver’s inner city since 1907 and is proud to serve as a member of the BWSS Board of Directors.

 

 

 

Shain Jackson

“More and more we are arriving at the realization that our liberty is tied to one another, that an injury to one is an injury to all, and if we truly value our own emancipation and well-being we must ensure it for others.”

 

Shain Jackson is a Coast Salish artist and former Indigenous rights lawyer.

 

 

 

 

Amal Rana

“In a world of justice and freedom, first our minds would be set free to do the work of building into our communities instead of focusing outwards to resist the systems that oppress us.”

 

Amal Rana is a queer Pakistani Poet, Performer and Educator working currently with cambiumarts.com, amongst others. In a time when even exhaling while being Muslim is considered a crime, she conjures poetry as an act of collective liberation.

 

 

Ariam Yetbarek

“A world with freedom and justice would be euphoric. A world were children are protected, cared loved. a world were with equity and equality for all races, sexes and genders. A place where everyone has  the same opportunity and access to make something of themselves. Justice being served to those committing crimes and getting away with it. Our environmental situation being better than what it is now, protecting the wilderness. Treating each other with kindness and respect.”

Ariam Yetbarek, is a member of Black Lives Matter Vancouver who also works on immigrant and refugees issues.

 

Annita Mcphee

“A world with freedom and justice would be to walk with no fear as an Indigenous Woman in Canada and for my daughter to be raised with no fear of being stolen.  A world with freedom and justice would be for Indigenous women to be treated  as equals in society at all levels including education and employment.  Also where Indigenous women feel included and not excluded.  Where we are not judged when we walk down the street, apply for work or for how we take care of our children. Where we can feel safe in our homes and not fear violence or be targets of violence. This is what freedom and justice look like to me”

Annita Mcphee , Coscuya  from the Tahltan/Tlingit Nations is a Motivational  Speaker,  International Human Rights Advocate  and Activist.  An expert in Lateral Violence and Communications, Annita has facilitated numerous conferences and workshops at the community, regional and national levels for First Nations and government.  As an Advocate to stop violence against Indigenous Women, Annita attended the United Nations Global Leadership School for Indigenous Women and received her Diploma in International Studies on Human Rights and Advocacy Skills at Columbia University in New York. Annita’s academic background also includes having a Degree in Law and a Bachelor of Social Work with Public Relations.

 

Angela Marie MacDougall

“Imagining a world with freedom and justice is where we meet our highest aspirations.  It is where we stand in the global context and tell the truth about environmental degradation, climate change, structural oppression and interpersonal violence.  It is also where we seek and take action to redress these harms through grounding ourselves in progressive movements, building on community-based organizing and away from individualism.  It is everyday resistance and resilience.”

Angela Marie MacDougall is executive director at Battered Women’s Support Services.

 

 

Rona Amiri

“A world of freedom and justice would give us the opportunity to live free without fear, to connect deeper with one-another. A world where women would be able to self-determine and to dream without holding back.”

Rona Amiri is the violence prevention coordinator at Battered Women’s Support Services

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Samantha Kearney

“Imagining a world with freedom and justice would be a world where we would not need to imagine, we all would be living it and thriving.

It would be a world where there was no need for marches, rallies, and movements. No need for groups to walk the streets to demand that their lives matter, their safety matters, their rights as humans matter. No need for women’s groups to have to prove the “worth” of their work ongoing to receive government funding support, to have their work deemed essential.

It would be a world where the 99% were in power to make decisions rather than the 1%. It would be a world were all were acknowledged, valued, and included to what is needed. It would be a world were ones who choose to abuse, rape, and be corrupt are held accountable. It would be a world where every individual was part of a community, a safe community, where they had enough food, affordable housing, a livable wage, and where they belonged.

Until that time, until that world, I have immense gratitude and respect for the many individuals, groups, and organizations working tirelessly giving their blood, sweat, and tears for a world with freedom and justice”.

Samantha Kearney is Manager of Retail Services and Programs at Battered Women’s Support Services

 

Angela Davis

“Don’t we want to be able to imagine the expansion of freedom and justice in the world…?”

Angela Davis feminist and writer. Through her activism and scholarship over many decades, Angela Davis has been deeply involved in movements for social justice around the world. Her work as an educator –both at the university level and in the larger public sphere –has always emphasized the importance of building communities of struggle for economic, racial, and gender justice.

 

A Few Good Seats Still Available

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Ticket Sponsorship

We are seeking ticket sponsorship for individuals who otherwise would be unable to attend, if you would like to sponsor tickets please email endingviolence@bwss.org

We are so grateful for our generous sponsors!

  • Nine individual ticket sponsors
  • The Centre for the Comparative Study of Muslim Societies and Cultures at SFU
  • John Fluevog Shoes.
  • Massy Books
  • VanCity Community Foundation
  • Profusion Technologies Corp

 

BWSS Holiday Hamper Program ~ Sponsor A Holiday Wish List

Holiday season is approaching, and as you know, it can be a stressful time for many of us.  This time of year can be even harder for the many women we work with who are dealing with the impacts of violence and abuse.

We want the holidays to be a beautiful time of year; we may look forward to preparing our favorite holiday meal, decorating the home, or picking out the perfect gifts for our children.  But we also know that the seasonal rush to get these things done can be stressful.  For women living with impacts of violence and abuse, they can be even more so with financial crunch, isolation, and the pressure to make the holidays the best they can be for their families.

Please consider making a donation to our Holiday Hamper program this year.  The program matches sponsors with the Wish List of a single woman or a mother-lead family, so that she can have a brighter holiday season.

In the past years our generous sponsors of the Holiday Hamper program have provided women with a gift card to cook a beautiful turkey dinner for her family, winter jackets for their kids, craft supplies to enjoy together, and so much more!  The Holiday Hampers really make a difference for women and their families around this time of year.

BWSS Holiday HamperAs a sponsor, you will receive a detailed Wish List on behalf of a woman and her family, including her special wish, the number and ages of any children, and their special wishes.  We work with women in diverse family structures, including single women as well as mothers.  Sponsors will be matched with women based on how many people the sponsor can provide for.  Gift cards of $100 (single dinner) and $200 (family dinner) will be accepted to sponsor women whose special wish includes a turkey dinner.  There is no stipulation on the amount that needs to be spent on other items.  No matter the size or cost of the items you purchase, you will change a woman’s holiday season.

Hampers must be delivered to Battered Women’s Support Services by Friday, December 15th.  This ensures that each woman has enough time to pick up their hamper and shop for their holiday meal.  Gifts should be wrapped or wrapping paper provided with the hamper.

BWSS Holiday Hamper

If sponsoring is not something you’re able to do at this time, please consider sharing this information within your networks to anyone who is looking to make a difference in women’s lives this holiday season. To sponsor a woman’s Holiday Wish List, please contact Kate at 604-687-1868 ext. 315 or email stsw@bwss.org.

Open letter to B.C. Minster of Justice, David Eby on Provincial Court Family Rules Project

BWSS is aware that the Ministry of Justice is currently involved in a project amending the Provincial Court (Family) Rules (“PCFR”). As part of the consultation process, representatives from BWSS participated in a consultation with various members of the Ministry of Justice on October 11, 2017. Regrettably, our participation in the consultation and our initial review of the government’s Overview and Consultation Presentation by the Justice Services Branch has caused us significant concerns about the government’s proposal and the potential impact of the proposed changes on women, and particularly women who are leaving abusive relationships.

Since before 1994, BWSS has been on record opposing alternative dispute resolution in cases where women have experienced abuse including violence.  In the past 23+ years, we have observed the increase of the depth of analysis articulated combined with an increase in the related apparatus within legal systems which has contributed to a climate where alternative dispute resolution is now believed to be a more viable option as the legal systems become more sensitized.

Read our open letter to Minister of Justice, David Eby.

Imagine a World with Freedom and Justice

35 Days Away from Angela Davis and 1,500 Tickets Sold

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Angela Davis has spent decades as an activist, author and scholar expressing ideas that remain at the forefront, on important issues of race, women’s rights, capitalism and justice.

Private reception is now sold out but excellent seats are still available.

Don’t miss the opportunity to see one of the most enduring feminist icons live in Vancouver, Coast Salish Territory.

Vancouver Civic Theatres posted this to their website.

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Ticket Sponsorship

We are seeking ticket sponsorship for individuals who otherwise would be unable to attend, if you would like to sponsor tickets please email endingviolence@bwss.org

We are so grateful to our generous sponsors!

  • Eight individual ticket sponsors
  • The Centre for the Comparative Study of Muslim Societies and Cultures at SFU
  • John Fluevog Shoes.
  • Massy Books
  • VanCity Community Foundation

Thank you so much to Patricia Massy from Massy Books for being the official book sponsor for the event, with 50% of all Angela Davis book sales going to BWSS from November 22nd to November 29th.

 

Monument Video – Sneak Peek

Photos from Battered Women’s Support Services Monument video project which will premiere as part of the official #AngelaDavisVan program.

#metoo

Ellena Neel


 

“I’m referring to sexual violence, sexual harassment, sexual assault. Intimate violence is not unconnected to state violence. Where do perpetrators of intimate violence learn how to engage in the practices of violence? Who teaches them that violence is okay?”
-Angela Davis

We are tremendously grateful to the Musqueam Nation to film at this beautiful spot by the river

More than Mad: Boundary setting in a racially charged hate-verse

A Workshop for Black Women

Do I know who I am?

Do I know who I’m not?

I am…

not a representative, not an amusement, not a stereotype, not a movement, not an experiment, not a source, not a hub of information, and not the sum total of the Black experience

I am just…me!

It’s hard to hold onto ourselves in a social media society. While there is the appearance of more access to thought provoking information, we are just becoming more arrogant to our ignorance; we think we “know” but, we only know what is posted on a Facebook wall or a twitter feed. A few talking points and we think we are sufficiently informed.  Black Women experience the consequences of this ignorance more than most, we are often regarded by social media but the actualities of our lives are never considered. We struggle to own our Blackness for us when everyone has an opinion about what it means for them.

The inability to take ourselves, and our needs, at face value is the mitigating causes of the stress, tension, exhaustion, anxiety, depression, and disconnection we are experiencing in our day-to-day lives. We lack the ability to just be. As Black women we are always conscious of how we affect others, and very rarely do we know what to do with how others affect us. This must change.

The Black Women’s Program at BWSS is hosting workshops in the month of November to invite women to come together and learn how to make these changes

Workshop participants will:

  • Be surrounded and supported by Black women in a safe non-judgmental space
  • Find their voices, and learn self-advocacy skills
  • Learn how not to get lost in societal labels that package our personalities for the benefit of others
  • Learn how to improve our relationships with ourselves
  • Learn the value of our emotions, and how to respect them and appropriately respond to our needs
  • Learn how to set and enforce boundaries with the people in and around our lives in an effort to locate and maintain our personal peace

Workshops will be Thursday evenings in November

November 16th, November 23rd, and November 30th from 6:00pm to 9:00 pm

Workshops are free to participants, but a 3 week commitment to attend all sessions is required

Snacks will be provided.

Participants must register: to register send an email Theresa@bwss.org, or call 604-687-1867, please include your name and contact information and you will be contacted by a workshop facilitator.