Mother’s Day: Take the Pledge

Every Mother’s Day we celebrate and honour our mothers and the sacrifices they have made.

Many women who experience violence are mothers.

  • As many as 1 in 4 women experience physical and/or sexual violence during pregnancy which increases the likelihood of having a miscarriage, still birth and abortion.
  • Almost 6 in 10 women with children who were assaulted by spouses said their children heard or saw the violent episode (59%)
  • In 2010, police-reported physical assaults accounted for 81% of incidents committed by spouses, against senior women.

Every day we work to change this reality. Because The Violence Stops Here.

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1 in 6 Canadians have shared that their mother has been a survivor of violence by their father or father figure. This Mother’s Day, honour the mothers and grandmothers in your life by taking the pledge to end violence against women by:

  1. Sharing this post
  2. Volunteering
  3. Making a donation

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May is Social Enterprise Month

Social Enterprise

Social enterprise is a great way for Battered Women’s Support Services (BWSS) to connect with our community. BWSS currently runs two social enterprises: My Sister’s Closet and Strategic Interventions. BWSS social enterprises create awareness and education in our community and make it possible for us to continue to provide critical services to women and girls.

My Sister’s Closet

When you’re looking to make a difference, there are a variety of ways you can use your power, your dollar, and your voice. At the moment, our society is driven by consumerism.  An excellent way to benefit your own budget, contribute to a healthier environment, and get your shopping done is to support the local economy and social enterprise. We’re pleased to encourage local action for big results by urging our community to shop at My Sister’s Closet this month as part of Social Enterprise Month.

My Sister's Closet

Fashion is cyclical, which means trends come back.  At My Sister’s Closet, you get a curated experience with access to thrift, new, up-cycled and artisan-made clothing, footwear, accessories, jewellery and curios for women and men.  My Sister’s Closet is located at 1092 Seymour Street, in the Yaletown District of Vancouver, Coast Salish Territories.

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Buying from My Sister’s Closet, social enterprise of Battered Women’s Support Services, deepens the gifting experience. Your purchase makes it possible for us:

  • to provide counselling and support groups for women healing from violence
  • to deliver dating violence prevention workshops for high school students across Metro Vancouver
  • to operate a crisis line, often the first point of contact for women experience violence by a partner

When you shop at My Sister’s Closet you’re helping the environment, you’re simulating the local economy, supporting local artisans and you’re helping end violence against women.

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Strategic Interventions

Strategic Interventions is professional development for front line workers, social service providers, advocates, community organizers and managers rooted in a decolonizing, intersectional feminist analysis of violence against girls and women. Each of our Strategic Interventions offers training and events designed for individuals working in a helping capacity with women, girls, men, families where violence and abuse are present.

CORE

Our established, gold star curriculum has trained thousands of people over the past 36 years. We know that employees hire graduates of our program which means that taking this CORE Training leads to increased employability. More importantly, our work helps women build strength and resiliency through better direct service delivery.

For more information about Strategic Interventions email us at communityengagement@bwss.org

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Prevention of Violence Against Women Week | April 18 – 22

Battered Women’s Support Services (BWSS) will commemorate Prevention of Violence Against Women Week again this year by engaging the community in violence prevention through the following events:

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CORE Training for Front-line Workers

Five day multi-media skill based training to support front line workers in their work to end violence against women

April 18 – 22, 2016

My Sister’s Closet  – 1092 Seymour Street, Vancouver

Contact: strategicinterventions@bwss.org

 

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Youth Against Violence Training – Musqueam Nation

Battered Women’s Support Services in collaboration with Musqueam Indian Band to host Drumming Up Courage a peer-led awareness and training workshops for teenage girls and boys.  Topics include: healthy relationships, cyber-violence, dating violence, date rape and how to be an empowered bystander.

April 12-14 &18 – 22, 2016

Musqueam Nation

Contact:  yev@bwss.org

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Violence Against Women Knows No Age Limits

Much has been written about dating violence, violence against adult women and elder abuse.  The invisibility of the abuse of senior women is what Battered Women’s Support Services seeks to change. This prevention week, Battered Women’s Support Services raises awareness of the prevalence of violence against senior women, the warning signs and specific considerations for senior women who experience violence.

April 18 – 24, 2016

Online at www.bwss.org, Twitter and Facebook

Contact:  endingviolence@bwss.org

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Preventing Violence against Women on Earth Day, April 22, 2016

BWSS hosts a clothing swap and thrifting event to build awareness around local and social environmental action.  The fashion industry is the second most polluting industry on Earth, right behind oil.  The average Canadian throws away 70 pounds of clothing and textiles into the trash each year. Garment workers are some of the lowest paid workers in the world and 85% of all garment workers are women.

Friday, April 22, 2016

My Sister’s Closet – 1092 Seymour Street, Vancouver

Contact:  samantha@bwss.org

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Kids from Camelot ~ Benefit for BWSS

Terry Wolfe, the creator of the film, Kids from Camelot, has made the screening of his film on April 23rd a benefit for Battered Women’s Support Services ~ proceeds from ticket sales will go to BWSS.

Kids from Camelot is a fantasy musical reminiscent of The Wizard of Oz about two kids who put down their cell phones and time travel back to Camelot to find out if an old sword in their storage locker is really King Arthur’s long lost Excalibur. They see what childhood should be about and start a counter revolution against TV and cell phone addicts.

Saturday, April 23, 2016

VanCity Theatre – 1181 Seymour St., Downtown Vancouver

Tickets: http://www.vtixonline.com/event.php?event_id=754

Learn more about previous Prevention of Violence Against Women Weeks’ BWSS has participated in:

Prevention of Violence Against Women Week 2012

Prevention of Violence Against Women Week 2013

Prevention of Violence Against Women Week 2014

Prevention of Violence Against Women Week 2015

CORE Training Update

Battered Women’s Support Services (BWSS) Strategic Interventions CORE Training is officially sold out.

Although training is sold out, those who are interested can still register for the wait list and will be informed if a spot becomes available. 

Register For The Wait-List

CORE Training is an interactive, five day professional development opportunity for front-line workers, social service providers, community organizers and managers.  CORE training is inspiring, highly informing, builds on existing skills and teaches new tools and approaches based on BWSS 36 years of front-line work.

Workshop topics include:

  • Historical, Legal and Social Context of Gender Violence
  • Violence in Intimate Relationships
  • Sexual Violence
  • The Role of Men
  • Gender Violence, Substance Use and Mental Health
  • Violence Against Women and the Law
  • Advocating for Effective Systemic Response
  • Moving Ahead

By the end of this highly experiential training, workshop participants will:

  • Gain skills in crisis intervention, risk assessment, safety planning, advocacy, and referrals,
  • Increase their understanding of best practices in both the clinical and community aspects of ending violence work,
  • Develop practical strategies and legal resources to better assist women in accessing justice,
  • Understand the importance of working with women who have experienced violence from an anti-oppression approach,
  • Develop an understanding and skills related to the importance of witnessing in gender violence intervention,
  • Understand the role of men in violence prevention. Participants will gain practical tools and strategies for breaking the silence and a promoting healthy masculine role.

You can acquire different tools and strategies that empower women, their families, and communities.

  Wait-List Registration 

Learn more about CORE Training here.

 

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Honouring Frances Wasserlein on International Women’s Day 2016

Battered Women’s Support Services honours one of our founding members

Frances Jane WasserleinFrances Jane Wasserlein, was an extraordinary and prominent Vancouver women’s and LGBTQ rights activist and arts administrator, who passed to the spirit world recently at her home at the Sunshine Coast’s Halfmoon Bay. She was 69.

Frances was born in San Francisco and moved to Vancouver with her family as a child, completing her grade school education at Little Flower Academy.

She made a name for herself in social activism, beginning with her work helping organize the 1970 Abortion Caravan from Vancouver to Ottawa.

During the summer of 1979 Frances worked as a researcher for the Women’s Office at UBC on a project related to the early contributions of women to the establishment of UBC and the role women played in student activism at the university.

In 1979, Frances was one of the small group of women who founded Battered Women’s Support Services to provide self-help groups for women who were seeking an end to the violence and to deliver support group facilitation training and conscious raising groups for women. She went on to co-found Women Against Violence Against Women (WAVAW/Rape Relief) in 1982.

After receiving her BA from UBC, Wasserlein worked for the YWCA as a co-manager of Munro House for eighteen months. Following that, she worked as a researcher and writer with the Women’s Research Centre, working on studies related to the institutionalization of women’s services.

In 1983, when community was organizing toward a province-wide general strike, Frances was an organizer with Women Against the Budget. It was part of the larger Operation Solidarity movement opposed to the legislation tabled by the provincial government, a movement which saw 60,000 people take the streets to march through the Vancouver.

Later, Frances was also involved in the initiative that saw the creation of Vancouver’s Montreal Massacre Memorial.

Three women who worked with Frances offer words in memoriam

Sheila NymanOn Frances Wasserlein by Sheila Nyman

As the former Executive Director of Chrysalis Society when I think of Frances Wasserlein the words of Audre Lorde come to me.

“When I dare to be powerful, to use my strength in the service of my vision, then it becomes less and less important whether I am afraid.”

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Frances was the Chair Women of the board of directors for Chrysalis Society for a number of years during their major transformation from clean and sober housing for women to a provincially licensed facility with full programs. The licensing was important in order to receive provincial health funding to operate. Our vision was for a program that embraced women’s empowerment and the ability to heal through self-discovery.  We believed that if women could be nurtured in a space safe to address their individual health concerns, trauma from their past, loss, and lives filled with violence, oppression and exploitation the result would be women empowered to live lives free from substance misuse and violence. This was indeed an innovative and unique approach to not only health and addiction but also against male violence against women. We were a group of women with a new approach and were challenged and put through the toughest of criteria from the “powers that be,” municipal and provincial levels of government. It was so tough and challenging and at times outright attacking that as the ED I wanted to give up many times. At those times there was Frances, strong and firm, always at my back reminding me by questioning my purpose, my commitment and my hearts desire that this was not about me and not about the “powers that be” but about the women that we stood up for now that we had connected with our power as women. She taught me that we, that I, have a responsibility to lead and model the way to be free as a woman with power, to hold up other women until they are standing in their power too. So my fear was not important, I had to transform that fear into passion, into power to rise above and keep walking forward with my focus on the vision. While at Frances’s memorial I learned that she shared this same teaching with many others in her time in this life, she was a warrior, a mentor, a leader, a defender she stood for freedom and love and shared it generously. With Frances we secured the licensing for Chrysalis who now has three homes and the programs are funded. The many women who have gone through the homes and now live empowered lives do not know Frances personally, the new board of directors and executive director do not know of her connection. The energy of her love has touched them all and continues as each woman becomes empowered to seek healing and freedom. Frances lives on in the energy of her love that she has left for all to share. We need only reach out and connect with the incredible initiatives she has spearheaded or championed.

All my relations,
Sheila A. Nyman MSW RSW

Jennifer JohnstoneA few decades ago when I first got involved in the women’s movement in Vancouver, Frances was one of my heroes and the opportunity to join the struggle alongside Frances was inspiring and incredibly energizing. Then a few years ago, I got the opportunity to reconnect with Frances who came onboard to write the history of Central City Foundation and once again I got to experience her wisdom, insight and compassionate self.  I will miss her dearly.

Jennifer Johnstone, Central City Foundation President & CEO

 

 

Janice AbbottFrances quenched my thirst to learn. She listened deeply and often. She gave me space to grow. She shored me up when I doubted. My world is a better place because I knew her and I hope I am a better woman.

Janice Abbott, CEO Atira Women’s Resource Society

“Their Spirits Live Within Us” 26th Annual Women’s Memorial March

Memorial March Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women

“Their Spirits Live Within Us” Join Battered Women’s Support Services on Sunday, February 14th for the 26th Annual Women’s Memorial March. The February 14th Women’s Memorial March is an opportunity to come together to grieve the loss of our beloved sisters in Downtown Eastside Vancouver and to dedicate ourselves to justice.

Here’s more about the march: https://www.facebook.com/events/567879256695101/

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