31 Actions for Gender Justice: Action 17. Stop Violence against Asian Women 

We’ve created 31 Actions for Gender Justice to raise awareness, spark conversations and take action that transforms gender and power relations, and the structures, norms and values that underpin them. Every day for the month of March we will highlight an action that advances gender equity and justice for International Women’s Day (IWD).

Stop Violence against Asian Women 

31 Actions for Gender Justice: Day 17

We grieve and rage with families of the victims, we strongly condemn the cowardly violent attack committed yesterday at three Atlanta-area massage parlours where a man shot and killed 8 people – 7 of them women of Asian descent.

The killing of 7 women yesterday in Atlanta by a man is about multiple layers of complexity and vulnerability where gender-based violence intersects: misogyny, racism, xenophobia, violence against migrant workers in sex economies.

It would be a mistake to believe that this wouldn’t happen in Canada where systemic racism and discrimination against racialized women, sexualized violence and violence against sex migrant workers intersects with misogyny.

Just today the Canadian Femicide Observatory for Justice and Accountability released its report #CallItFemicide which documents 160 women and girls killed by men in 2020.

People often dismiss misogyny as a motivation for killing sprees because the devaluation of women has been so normalized historically that misogyny isn’t even considered as a factor for hate crimes, which is to say it doesn’t exist. Three of the worst mass killings in Canadian history sprang out of misogyny.

Immigrant and racialized women and people of marginalized genders face particular challenges because of racial prejudices. Particularly, Indigenous women, face higher rates of violence and femicide. Indigenous women in Canada are estimated to experience 2.5 times the violence than other women which Amnesty International called a “human rights crisis”. Indigenous women not only face violence more frequently but the violence against them is also much more severe. There at least 1,200 murdered and missing Indigenous women in Canada.

We can’t stand by and do nothing, while violence against women is on the rise at alarming rates during the pandemic: xenophobia, racism, misogyny, violence and hatred fueled by COVID-19, white supremacy, and all forms harmful attitudes and behaviours that stand in the way of equity and justice.

Stand up and condemn violence against Asian women.

Support grassroots organizations dedicated to support Asian and migrant sex workers and massage parlour workers:

Butterfly Asian and Migrant Sex Workers Network in Toronto 

https://www.butterflysw.org/

Red Canary Song in the US 

https://www.redcanarysong.net/

#CallItFemicide. Understanding sex/gender-related killings of women and girls in Canada 2020

https://femicideincanada.ca/callitfemicide2020.pdf

Stand up and condemn violence against Asian women.

31 Actions for Gender Justice: Action 16. Address sensitive topics

We’ve created 31 Actions for Gender Justice to raise awareness, spark conversations and take action that transforms gender and power relations, and the structures, norms and values that underpin them. Every day for the month of March we will highlight an action that advances gender equity and justice for International Women’s Day (IWD).

Address sensitive topics

31 Actions for Gender Justice: Day 16

In average, every 2.6 days a woman is killed in Canada by a man, often by her current or former intimate partner. We don’t need to wait for studies to confirm these numbers. It takes only a few seconds to search the news online to find this information.

These deaths can be prevented by identifying harmful behaviours that increase the risk of intimate partner homicide.

Non-fatal, non-consensual strangulation is one of these harmful behaviours that increases the risk of homicide by 700%1. It’s a sensitive topic, but it needs to be talked about.

Strangulation is defined as “the obstruction of blood vessels and/or airflow in the neck resulting in asphyxia. “And just like you can’t be ‘a little bit pregnant’, victims can’t be ‘choked just a little bit’ by their attackers and not have serious, significant, permanent, or even fatal damage to their throats or brains.”[1]

According to the Training Institute for Strangulation Prevention in San Diego, California, 30% to almost 70% of women who experience domestic violence have been strangled.[2]

Often, this form of violence may not leave physical signs of injury, which makes it difficult for service providers to identify and for victims themselves to report and fathom that it could be fatal or a prelude to homicide. For this reason, it’s important for first responders to ask women in abusive environments if anyone has put pressure on their throat. Non-fatal strangulation may be silent but deadly.

  • 7 to 10 seconds = is the average time to unconsciousness
  • 15 seconds of strangulation can lead to brain infarct (stroke)
  • 1-30 seconds of strangulation can lead to cardiac arrest
  • 4 to 5 minutes of strangulation can lead to brain death

Sensitive topics are difficult to discuss for many people, but avoiding talking about it doesn’t make the issues go away. While community-based organizations like BWSS help survivors with risk assessment and safety planning, it is also key to include information about strangulation in prevention programs and public awareness campaigns. Prevention education saves lives.

[1] Coalition to Stop Violence Against Native Woman. Retrieved from https://www.csvanw.org/strangulation

2 ibid

3 Training Institute on Strangulation Prevention. Retrieved from https://www.strangulationtraininginstitute.com/impact-of-strangulation-crimes/

[1] ibid

[2] Training Institute on Strangulation Prevention. Retrieved from https://www.strangulationtraininginstitute.com/impact-of-strangulation-crimes/

Address sensitive topics: 31 actions for gender justice

31 Actions for Gender Justice: Action 15. Make prevention and intervention of end gender-based violence essential services

We’ve created 31 Actions for Gender Justice to raise awareness, spark conversations and take action that transforms gender and power relations, and the structures, norms and values that underpin them. Every day for the month of March we will highlight an action that advances gender equity and justice for International Women’s Day (IWD).

Make prevention and intervention of end gender-based violence essential services

31 Actions for Gender Justice: Day 15

Reports have shown that gender-based violence is increasing at an alarming rate during COVID-19. BWSS has experienced this trend first-hand.

This is consistent with evidence from previous pandemics that reveals increased violence against female health workers, online violence, femicide, harmful practices, and racial and ethnic discrimination and violence.[1] By September 2020, the UN reported that 48 countries had integrated prevention and response to violence against women and girls into COVID-19 response plans. Canada has yet to launch a national plan to address violence against women as part of the COVID-19 response.

Prevention and intervention to end gender-based violence should be considered essential services. Support for community-based organizations in need of long-term sustainable funding to support victims and survivors is crucial and must be included in provincial and federal recovery plans.

At BWSS, we can’t afford to be short of funds, staff, volunteers and other resources. Many women who call our crisis line are in immediate danger and in need of immediate services like emergency shelter. Our efficient and quick response save lives and bring women and their children to safety. Our services are essential.

Our intersectional approach helps us understand the needs of women from all walks of life. A recovery plan must be developed with the needs of women and girls in mind and with emphasis on the importance of understanding the issues of the most vulnerable groups of women that have been left out of the picture in the COVID-19 response plan – non-binary, gender diverse folks, Indigenous, Immigrants, women with different abilities.

[1] https://www.unwomen.org/-/media/headquarters/attachments/sections/library/publications/2020/gender-equality-in-the-wake-of-covid-19-en.pdf?la=en&vs=5142

Make prevention and intervention of end gender-based violence essential services

31 Actions for Gender Justice: Action 14. Help a Loved One

We’ve created 31 Actions for Gender Justice to raise awareness, spark conversations and take action that transforms gender and power relations, and the structures, norms and values that underpin them. Every day for the month of March we will highlight an action that advances gender equity and justice for International Women’s Day (IWD).

Action 14. Help a Loved One

31 Actions for Gender Justice: Day 14

You may think that talking to a friend or relative who is experiencing abuse doesn’t make a big difference, but it does.

  • Be willing to listen without judging. Be supportive. Show and tell your loved one that you care and you’re concerned.
  • Let your loved one know that abuse is not the survivor’s fault. There is no excuse.
  • Physical safety is the first priority. Women frequently minimize the violence because abuse usually gets worse over time. Ignoring the abuse is dangerous. Suggest your loved one to develop a safety plan in case of emergency. Download and complete BWSS Safety Plan here. A personalized safety plan is a practical plan that includes ways to remain safe while in a relationship, planning to leave, or after you leave. Click here to learn more about safety planning. Take Back Your Power!
  • Avoid pressuring your loved one to leave the relationship and using language that may seem controlling or judgmental like “You need to…” “You should…” “Why don’t you…” “You have to…”.
  • Help your loved one with her self-esteem. Tell her what you admire about her; why you value her as a friend; what are her strengths and special qualities.

Remember: You may be the only person your friend or relative can trust. Be attentive, believe what she says, tell her you care, and show her you are willing to help.

To learn more about how you can help a loved one who is experiencing abuse and violence, read our guide How Can I Help my friend?

The better informed you are, the better able you will be to help your friend.

Safety is always at the centre of our work at Battered Women’s Support Services.

BWSS Crisis & Intake Line at 604-687-1867 or toll-free at 1-855-687-1868 for support and information

How can I help a loved one in an abusive relationship?

31 Actions for Gender Justice: Action 13. Understand and address specific needs of LGBTQ2S and non-binary folks

We’ve created 31 Actions for Gender Justice to raise awareness, spark conversations and take action that transforms gender and power relations, and the structures, norms and values that underpin them. Every day for the month of March we will highlight an action that advances gender equity and justice for International Women’s Day (IWD).

Understand and address specific needs of LGBTQ2S and non-binary folks

31 Actions for Gender Justice: Day 13

Abuse occurs within lesbian, gay, bi-sexual, queer, trans, non-binary, and straight relationships. It happens in all communities regardless of race, social status or education. Size, strength, mental health, use of substances, gender presentation or politics does not determine whether a person has been abused or is abusive.

Unfortunately, because most research on domestic and sexual abuse focuses on heterosexual experiences of violence, LGBTQ2S and non-binary folks are excluded from initiatives to end intimate partner violence.

Experiences of intimate partner violence becomes even more complex when we consider how sexual orientation or gender identity intersects with other aspects of identity (e.g. race/ethnicity), which then interact with systems of oppression (e.g. heterosexism, racism).[1]

An intersectional approach is needed to listen to diverse voices and eliminate barriers that LGBTQ2S and non-binary folks face to access community services, justice, health care, support for survivors of violence – barriers such as non-inclusive language in outreach materials, exclusion of programs and services due to gender identity, unsafe practices like survivors and abusive partners in the same program, harassment, homo/bi/transphobia.

BWSS recognizes that LGBTQ2S and non-binary folks experience domestic and sexual violence and we are committed to facing this reality and providing relevant services and support for lesbian, gay, bi-sexual, queer, transgender, two-spirit, and non-binary survivors of violence. To learn more, we have some resources for you online:

LGBTQ2S Power and Control Wheel

BEYOND THE WHEEL: Tactics of Abuse

Trans-misogyny primer by Julia Serano

It takes a village, people! Advocacy for friends, family, and LGBT survivors of abuse

Proceed! LGBTQ Domestic Violence Legal Toolkit for Advocates

Trans-Specific Power and Control Tactics

Still Hidden in the Closet

Trans Women and Domestic Violence by Kae Greenberg

Break the Cycle

Transgender Youth and dating violence

There’s no one I can trust

The impact of mandatory reporting on the help-seeking and wellbeing of domestic violence survivors

[1] Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) in Rainbow Communities, 2015. Centre for Research & Education on Violence Against Women and Children. Retrieved from http://www.vawlearningnetwork.ca/our-work/issuebased_newsletters/issue-12/12-Rainbow_Newsletter_Print_InHouse.pdf

 

[1] Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) in Rainbow Communities, 2015. Centre for Research & Education on Violence Against Women and Children. Retrieved from http://www.vawlearningnetwork.ca/our-work/issuebased_newsletters/issue-12/12-Rainbow_Newsletter_Print_InHouse.pdf

Resources for LGBTQ2S and non-binary survivors of violence

31 Actions for Gender Justice: Action 12. Make Online Spaces Safer

We’ve created 31 Actions for Gender Justice to raise awareness, spark conversations and take action that transforms gender and power relations, and the structures, norms and values that underpin them. Every day for the month of March we will highlight an action that advances gender equity and justice for International Women’s Day (IWD).

Make Online Spaces Safer

31 Actions for Gender Justice: Day 12

Cyberviolence and online hate against women can have a more devastating psychological impact on victims than face-to-face interactions. Cyberviolence is often used by abusers to control women in abusive relationships or to anonymously attack women in marginalized groups and promote hate against women. Everyone deserves a life free from violence and this includes digital violence.

According to the Canadian Women’s Foundation, there has been an increase in hate crimes in Canada in recent years, which has been linked to “increasing expressions of hate in digital spaces, including those directed at women and 2SLGBTQ+ community, as well as highly targeted ethnic and religious groups”.

An online survey of 60 respondents by BWSS found that, due to cyberviolence:

  • 48% of women surveyed experienced anxiety and 43% said their self-image was damaged.
  • 40% reported that they withdrew from online activity.
  • 30% felt shame and humiliation.
  • 28% experienced isolation from friends and family.
  • 13% reported “some impact on their job (losing their job, being unable to advance in job or being unable to find a new job).”
  • 10% reported that they had thoughts of suicide and engaging in self-harm.
  • 3.3% of women said that they had to move out of their community.

Anti-violence and violence prevention education from a young age is critical to change harmful attitudes and behaviours against women. It is especially vital in secondary schools, where the highly gendered nature of violence is often obscured by all-encompassing terminology. The term “bullying” for example, can mask sexism, racism, homophobia, and violent crimes like sexual assault.

Education must address gender inequity and emphasize the systemic and intersectional reality of oppression. By teaching young people that women are valuable, we can send the message that violence against them is unacceptable. This will make online spaces safer.

 

Recommended reading:

Is that legal? What the Law Says about Online Harassment and Abuse Multilingual versions available: Arabic, Chinese Traditional, Chinese Simplified, French, Punjabi, and Spanish. We all have the right to be safe online. This booklet describes four online situations you might find yourself in. We explain the laws for each one. We also say what you can do if you’re going through something similar, and where to get help.

The Facts about Online Hate and Cyberviolence Against Women and Girls in Canada, 2019. Canadian Women’s Foundation. 

Cyberviolence Against Women, 2014. Battered Women’s Support Services. 

 

Make Online Spaces Safer